The best feeling in the world is to be in love (naman!), it's like you're always on Cloud 9 (dahil lagi kang lutang at masaya). Whenever you're with the one you love time swiftly passes by that you don't notice how long you have been together (kung pwede nga lang patitigilin mo ang oras). You get inspired each day and it makes you do good in all the things that you do. It indeed feels good to be in love. To have finally met that someone who will fill the emptiness in your heart (tama ang sabi sa kanta), who will be your tandem for life and your partner through thick and thin (naks!).
Finding the love of your life is not the same for all of us. Some meet early while some wait for a long time, but one thing remains for sure it's that each one of us have our own so called "destiny". I do not believe that there is a perfect man for every woman and vice versa, simply because nobody's perfect. But I do believe that there is a right person for each of us, and that right person is someone who's willing to accept you and love you for who you are, because when you love a person you do not see his/her imperfections (kaya nga love is blind diba?).
Love can mean sacrifice to some, like giving up something important in their lives like opportunities, dreams and even people in order for them to be with their loved one. There are some who would settle for a one-way relationship, the kind wherein only one person loves (nakakalungkot isipin). But that is true love and no one can ever question someone's love for someone.
Today, I am going to introduce to you the love of my life. The man who loves my imperfections and believes in me, nobody but my ever loving, loyal and faithful husband (sabi nga dapat di lang loyal, faithful din dapat), Bob Sanchez.
We are one of those who have the so called May-December love affair, we have a 12 year age gap (di lang halata). But that did not pose a hindrance to our peaceful and happy marriage not that because we are very much compatible but because we just love each other so much that we don't make a big fuss out of our differences. We've been together for almost 6 years now and I am looking forward to a lifetime of being with him. He is my best friend, my mentor, my coach (kaya ako CS eligible ngayon), my nurse, my doctor (mahigpit pa sya sa doctor actually), my chef (sya ang Gordon Ramsay ng buhay ko) and my life (yun na!). What I like most with my husband is his kind heart (minsan kahit inaabuso na sya okay parin), his humor and his wittiness (sarap kausap), I learned and still learning a lot from him. I admire how he sets his priorities in life and how he juggles through his day job, his family business obligations, his buy & sell sideline and his father & husband duties to me and to our son (galing niya diba).
Our usual bonding moment is cooking, eating on our favorite restaurants (kita naman healthy kaming dalawa) and watching movies. Let me share to you some trivia about us. Our theme song is Parachutes by Pearl Jam and Hard to Believe by Eraserheads. We love to watch Cooking Shows, Horror Movies (lalo na Thai Horror hehe), we both love CSI (particularly Las Vegas), Entourage and The Walking Dead. When it comes to food, our favorites are Italian and Japanese foods, Steak, Fresh Fruit Shakes, Chocolates, Pastries and Fruits (wala kaming inuurungang prutas), oh and Chips (hihihi).
Recently, we had our trip in Boracay and we conquered some of our greatest fears together, his Aquaphobia and my Acrophobia. We both took the Zipline which is from the mountain down to a cliff (seriously akala ko maaatake nako nun hehe) and we rode the Banana Boat (tahimik si hubby the whole time hahaha). May be next time we'll have enough courage to give the Fly Fish and the Parasailing a try.
A proof that love makes you become a better you. Just by knowing that you have someone who believes in your abilities and your worth, that there is someone who spreads you wings to fly and who's also there to catch you everytime you fall (naks parang kanta nanaman yun ah), truly a feeling of fulfillment.
I never thought I deserved someone as good as my husband. I know he is too good for me that's why I'm really trying hard to be the best wife that I can be to him too. You know what, he isn't asking for too much from me, all he wants is for me to take good care of our son and to always be by his side (oo ganon lang kasimple, bait noh?). I hope that somehow I am doing good on being his wife in return to him for being the best husband. I'm fortunate that he waited for me, he would always say to me that I was worth his wait (awww) which I am more pleased.
I would never claim that our marriage is perfect, of course there are times that we argue but we don't fight (walang pisikalan). We handle arguments diplomatically, we talk over things when we're both ready, no matter how big or small the issues are. On tough times we just stick with each other, we mutually try to come up with possible solutions and we always choose to remain happy by focusing more on positive thoughts and on the beautiful things that we have.
No comments:
Post a Comment